Hey Hun,
I don't really have a reason to write today per se. Just an update. Today is Thursday and my last day of work for a couple of weeks while I'm housesitting in Seattle. It will be nice to spend some time over there so I can catch up with friends and family that I don't often see. My list of people to see has already grown quite large and now I'm hoping I can fit it all in. Chances are I will be frustrated with myself for not allowing more freedom. Oh well, in any event I'm sure it will be great. I'm going to be staying in the U-district at a very cute house owned by my dad's (Tim) cousin and his wife. They have two large dogs and three cats and I'm bringing Kai along as well so I'll be surrounded by excitement the entire time.
Mickey leaves for Germany this coming Tuesday so I'm going to see him and Allison Sunday for a "going away" dinner. Then Allison isn't leaving for another month so she's going to stay with me at the house the majority of the time which will be nice. Peder was pressuring me into letting him come over for a few days but I refused. It's time that tie was made strictly friendly and all physical contact severed completely. I don't want him, I want you! I just wish you'd hurry up and get here, lol.
Speaking of ties however, I was contacted by Chris Haugen. He's the boyfriend I had in Hawaii, the one I got Kai with. Every now and then he'll contact me and it's never pleasant. He was controlling then and he's controlling now. He feels he has some right to Kai because he knew him 1 year out of his life. Chris betrayed me and never made good on some money that he owed me. It wasn't even that much, $350 but it's the principle of the matter in my eyes. Especially since I had it at one point and gave it back to him because he would have been broke only because he promised to give it to me as soon as he got to where he was going. As you can imagine, after numerous excuses, I never saw it.
Well, I received a friend request from him on Facebook. This is the fourth or fifth over the years. I've always hit "ignore" but then he sends it again some months later. My friend Tamara accepted his friend request and then told me that he doesn't look very good. I checked out his page just to find that he had recently put pictures of me up there! How weird is that?! Shortly after I received a friend request which I "ignored". Then a month later, another one.
I finally wrote to him and said, "Is there something you want to say to me or are you just trying to add another number to your site? I'm confused about the recurring friend requests." He waited a few days and then replied, "Actually no I have nothing to say to you and I don't need you as a friend but I would really love to hear about how Kai is doing. I tried the phone number I had for you but it doesn't work. Even though we have our issues I do miss him and would like to hear how he is doing every once in a while. Even a picture would be nice." My reply was not very nice I know but really, it was time for this to end, " If you had handled things between us differently I may be more inclined to include you in my life. Since you have no interest in ME anyway, I'm definitely not going to tell you about my dog. That's a topic saved for friends and family. Given that you are neither, it does not concern you. My phone number is the same it ever was; enough said about that. By the way, it's kind of strange that you recently put pictures of me up on your page. It would be one thing if we were friends but...Please Chris, just leave me alone. You lost all your rights to Kai when you betrayed me. Nonetheless, may God bless you with happiness in your present life and help you find the courage to let go of connections you had in the past."
Then I blocked him so he can't contact me at all on Facebook. I pride myself on staying friends with ex-boyfriends. They have all offered me some bit of who I am today and I thank them for that and want to honor the time we had together. Chris is different. I honestly want nothing to do with him! My life is better when he's not in it in any form. He was a mistake and should reside only in my memory as a "learning experience".
Well, it's 10:23 AM and I should probably get off the computer and get ready for work. Have you ever read those little cartoons in the paper titled "Love is..."? I absolutely adore them and want to share them with you. I'll attach a new one to each post I write.
Until next time...XOXO (I wish I could do that for real)
I don't really have a reason to write today per se. Just an update. Today is Thursday and my last day of work for a couple of weeks while I'm housesitting in Seattle. It will be nice to spend some time over there so I can catch up with friends and family that I don't often see. My list of people to see has already grown quite large and now I'm hoping I can fit it all in. Chances are I will be frustrated with myself for not allowing more freedom. Oh well, in any event I'm sure it will be great. I'm going to be staying in the U-district at a very cute house owned by my dad's (Tim) cousin and his wife. They have two large dogs and three cats and I'm bringing Kai along as well so I'll be surrounded by excitement the entire time.
Mickey leaves for Germany this coming Tuesday so I'm going to see him and Allison Sunday for a "going away" dinner. Then Allison isn't leaving for another month so she's going to stay with me at the house the majority of the time which will be nice. Peder was pressuring me into letting him come over for a few days but I refused. It's time that tie was made strictly friendly and all physical contact severed completely. I don't want him, I want you! I just wish you'd hurry up and get here, lol.
Speaking of ties however, I was contacted by Chris Haugen. He's the boyfriend I had in Hawaii, the one I got Kai with. Every now and then he'll contact me and it's never pleasant. He was controlling then and he's controlling now. He feels he has some right to Kai because he knew him 1 year out of his life. Chris betrayed me and never made good on some money that he owed me. It wasn't even that much, $350 but it's the principle of the matter in my eyes. Especially since I had it at one point and gave it back to him because he would have been broke only because he promised to give it to me as soon as he got to where he was going. As you can imagine, after numerous excuses, I never saw it.
Well, I received a friend request from him on Facebook. This is the fourth or fifth over the years. I've always hit "ignore" but then he sends it again some months later. My friend Tamara accepted his friend request and then told me that he doesn't look very good. I checked out his page just to find that he had recently put pictures of me up there! How weird is that?! Shortly after I received a friend request which I "ignored". Then a month later, another one.
I finally wrote to him and said, "Is there something you want to say to me or are you just trying to add another number to your site? I'm confused about the recurring friend requests." He waited a few days and then replied, "Actually no I have nothing to say to you and I don't need you as a friend but I would really love to hear about how Kai is doing. I tried the phone number I had for you but it doesn't work. Even though we have our issues I do miss him and would like to hear how he is doing every once in a while. Even a picture would be nice." My reply was not very nice I know but really, it was time for this to end, " If you had handled things between us differently I may be more inclined to include you in my life. Since you have no interest in ME anyway, I'm definitely not going to tell you about my dog. That's a topic saved for friends and family. Given that you are neither, it does not concern you. My phone number is the same it ever was; enough said about that. By the way, it's kind of strange that you recently put pictures of me up on your page. It would be one thing if we were friends but...Please Chris, just leave me alone. You lost all your rights to Kai when you betrayed me. Nonetheless, may God bless you with happiness in your present life and help you find the courage to let go of connections you had in the past."
Then I blocked him so he can't contact me at all on Facebook. I pride myself on staying friends with ex-boyfriends. They have all offered me some bit of who I am today and I thank them for that and want to honor the time we had together. Chris is different. I honestly want nothing to do with him! My life is better when he's not in it in any form. He was a mistake and should reside only in my memory as a "learning experience".
Well, it's 10:23 AM and I should probably get off the computer and get ready for work. Have you ever read those little cartoons in the paper titled "Love is..."? I absolutely adore them and want to share them with you. I'll attach a new one to each post I write.
Until next time...XOXO (I wish I could do that for real)
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