Hey Sweetheart,
I don't have a lot of time cause I have a meeting at work I need to get to but I know I haven't written in awhile and wanted you to know that I haven't forgotten about you. It's July 1, 2010 today which means that the countdown seriously begins today! I am soooo excited that I meet you in just a month.
So, something happened the other day that I want you to know about. Have I mentioned my ex-boyfriend Chris at all? He was the guy I was dating in Hawaii. Well, we bought Kai together and when we broke up in the summer of 2007 I told him I wanted to keep Kai which he agreed to. Well, over the past three years he has tried to contact me on and off. At first I was nice to him because he owed me money and kept promising to send it to me. I eventually realized that was never going to happen and severed ties. A few months back he sent numerous friend requests on Facebook and this was the conversation that followed:
Between Chris Haugen and You
Katie Fothergill April 5 at 8:52am
Is there something you want to say to to me or are you just trying to add another number to your friends? I'm confused at your intentions for the recurring friend requests.
April 8 at 1:42am
Actually no I have nothing to say to you and I don't need you as a friend but I would really love to hear about how Kai is doing. I tried the phone number I had for you but it doesn't work. Even though we have our issues I do miss him and would like to hear how he is doing every once in a while. Even a picture would be nice.
Katie Fothergill April 8 at 9:37am
If you had handled things between us differently I may be more inclined to include you in my life. Since you have no interest in ME anyway, I'm definitely not going to tell you about my dog. That's a topic saved for friends and family. Given that you are neither, it does not concern you. My phone number is the same it ever was; enough said about that. By the way, it's kind of strange that you recently put pictures of me up on your page. It would be one thing if we were friends but...Please Chris, just leave me alone. You lost all your rights to Kai when you betrayed me. Nonetheless, may God bless you with happiness in your present life and help you find the courage to let go of connections you had in the past.
And then I blocked him so he couldn't contact me anymore. Well a few days ago I had left myself logged into my Yahoo account and when I came back to the computer this was the IM that I received from him:
"your going to come home one day soon and kai will be gone. locking your door isnt going to help ill just break the fucker down. i hope you and your whole family rot in hell. i tried to give you time to become less of a selfish cunt but it looks like that will never change. i hope you get hit by a fuckin semi you self centered piece of shit. my time with you would have been better spent hitting myself in the head with a hammer. i get sick everytime i even think about the giant waste of my life you were."
I showed Mom and we called the police and everything but they didn't think it was that serious. It's pretty scary considering that I broke up with this guy three years ago and he still has such intense feelings! I'm trying not to live in fear but it's really hard. I would devastated if I lost Kai. I'm going to feel much, MUCH better once you and I are living together and Chris doesn't know where to find Kai. I know that being with you will heal my anxiety and that you will protect us.
Okay Honey, I have to get going. But, I love you tons and am so anxious for next month! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
I don't have a lot of time cause I have a meeting at work I need to get to but I know I haven't written in awhile and wanted you to know that I haven't forgotten about you. It's July 1, 2010 today which means that the countdown seriously begins today! I am soooo excited that I meet you in just a month.
So, something happened the other day that I want you to know about. Have I mentioned my ex-boyfriend Chris at all? He was the guy I was dating in Hawaii. Well, we bought Kai together and when we broke up in the summer of 2007 I told him I wanted to keep Kai which he agreed to. Well, over the past three years he has tried to contact me on and off. At first I was nice to him because he owed me money and kept promising to send it to me. I eventually realized that was never going to happen and severed ties. A few months back he sent numerous friend requests on Facebook and this was the conversation that followed:
Between Chris Haugen and You
Katie Fothergill April 5 at 8:52am
Is there something you want to say to to me or are you just trying to add another number to your friends? I'm confused at your intentions for the recurring friend requests.
April 8 at 1:42am
Actually no I have nothing to say to you and I don't need you as a friend but I would really love to hear about how Kai is doing. I tried the phone number I had for you but it doesn't work. Even though we have our issues I do miss him and would like to hear how he is doing every once in a while. Even a picture would be nice.
Katie Fothergill April 8 at 9:37am
If you had handled things between us differently I may be more inclined to include you in my life. Since you have no interest in ME anyway, I'm definitely not going to tell you about my dog. That's a topic saved for friends and family. Given that you are neither, it does not concern you. My phone number is the same it ever was; enough said about that. By the way, it's kind of strange that you recently put pictures of me up on your page. It would be one thing if we were friends but...Please Chris, just leave me alone. You lost all your rights to Kai when you betrayed me. Nonetheless, may God bless you with happiness in your present life and help you find the courage to let go of connections you had in the past.
And then I blocked him so he couldn't contact me anymore. Well a few days ago I had left myself logged into my Yahoo account and when I came back to the computer this was the IM that I received from him:
"your going to come home one day soon and kai will be gone. locking your door isnt going to help ill just break the fucker down. i hope you and your whole family rot in hell. i tried to give you time to become less of a selfish cunt but it looks like that will never change. i hope you get hit by a fuckin semi you self centered piece of shit. my time with you would have been better spent hitting myself in the head with a hammer. i get sick everytime i even think about the giant waste of my life you were."
I showed Mom and we called the police and everything but they didn't think it was that serious. It's pretty scary considering that I broke up with this guy three years ago and he still has such intense feelings! I'm trying not to live in fear but it's really hard. I would devastated if I lost Kai. I'm going to feel much, MUCH better once you and I are living together and Chris doesn't know where to find Kai. I know that being with you will heal my anxiety and that you will protect us.
Okay Honey, I have to get going. But, I love you tons and am so anxious for next month! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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